The relative I mentioned, my grandad, also wore a hat in the early days of our acquaintance.
There is someone we visited when I was just a baby who may have been my mum's great-aunt, and would have been of 19th century vintage. But she might just have been mum's auntie, and as I say, I was too young to remember the occasion.
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' "Haven't got houses." Where do they live then?'